
Holy cow! Yup, this message is from my friend Lisa, a girl who always knew how to cleverly get herself out of a bind, so by "good old 'Toni' advice" I think she is simply referring to the times I helped her get stains out of the carpet with a little baking soda & a toothbrush.
This is a classic case of "tell the friend, but be ready to not be friends anymore" versus "shut your mouth, and when their marriage disentegrates, you can finally tell her, but be ready to not be friends anymore".
Please please please share some of your own personal wisdom, gentle reader. I sincerely mean it when I tell you I am seeking a lot of input on this. Lisa is only one of my oldest friends because she is your classic fun-loving-girl-with-a-heart-of-gold types. I can't not have advice for her here, but don't know where to begin, so someone. Anyone.
PLEASE! Someone give me something to work with!!
FOLLOW-UP
Toni Ryan says: OK, The Christine Show has chimed in with her ususal blend of telling-it-like-it-is and an acute eye for the underlying "correct etiquette". Check out her pitch-perfect advice at www.thechristineshow.com
some guys are such dogs
ReplyDeleteHahahah, so simple, yet so true. although i just wanna clarify, that said SOME guys.
ReplyDeleteSOME guys, ok you men? calm down.